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  • Reach Your Weight Loss And Fitness Goals: How To Make 2014 The Year

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    At any given time, millions of Americans are actively on a diet. Whether it’s Paleo or South Beach, Atkins or Mediterranean, the goal is to shed extra pounds and feel better about yourself. One reason for exercise can be to lose weight. Routines ranging from Zumba to strength training can help you sweat off the pounds and tone your muscles.

    The new year is upon us. How many of you have promised yourself that 2014 will be different?  It will be YOUR year. This is the year you will MAKE things happen!

    You chose a nutrition or “diet” plan to follow. You joined a gym or bought exercise equipment.  This is going to be the year you get in the best shape of your life – you just know it. It is going to be different this time.

    I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the odds are not in your favor.

    Absolutely not! Studies show that the success rate of people who make resolutions is 10 times higher than the success rate of those desiring to change behavior but not making a resolution to do it.

    Answering a few questions about goals and human …

    Psychology professor Peter Herman and his colleagues have identified what they call the “false hope syndrome,” which means their resolution is significantly unrealistic and out of alignment with their internal view of themselves.

    In other words, be honest about yourself about your abilities and where you are starting from. Don’t expect to go from sitting around the house all day to being a marathoner in a few months, or to lose 40 pounds in a few weeks.  There is nothing wrong with having big goals, but be realistic about the time and effort you will have to invest to get there.

    Clinical psychologist John Norcross says that setting obtainable and realistic goals is crucial, but  the goal also has to be measurable:

    We say if you can’t measure it, it’s not a very good resolution because vague goals beget vague resolutions.  Grandiose goals beget resignation and early failure.

    Setting realistic, attainable, and measurable goals is the first step, but that’s the easy part. Anyone can sit down and plan out what and how they plan to change a habit or reach a goal.  The next step – and the most important – takes some more work. It involves your MINDSET.  In order to change the behaviors that will help you reach your goals, you need to change the way you THINK.

    Nothing happens in your reality without it first happening in your mind. Where the mind goes, the body follows. Your personal world is the result of your inner thinking. Therefore, happiness, health, and weight loss are the result…or not.

    Many years ago, I noticed something unpleasant about myself. I’ve also observed this trait in other people. You might recognize it in yourself.

    I tend to get in my own way. I start working towards a goal, and I get excited about the progress I begin to see. Success finally seems within my reach, and then…something happens. I lose my motivation and go back to my old ways. This drives me crazy, so I started doing some research to find out WHY I do this to myself. During that process, I came across an intriguing article. I still haven’t forgotten its message, and still refer back to it when I feel myself slipping. And, I still actively study the concepts I learned from it.

    The article is called Self Concept and Self SabotageThe Hidden Reason Why You Sabotage Your Diet and Fitness Efforts Just When the Going Gets Good (and What to Do About It).

    It was written by Tom Venuto, who is a very well-known and respected fitness expert.
    Here’s an excerpt:

    Tell me if this has ever happened to you: You decide you want to improve your body and live a healthier lifestyle. You read all the books, gather all the information, map out a nutritional strategy, design your own workout schedule (or have a trainer do it for you), and you embark on the journey to a leaner physique…and it starts working! But the minute you begin getting results, you fall off the wagon. You binge, you skip workouts, you cheat. 

    What’s most perplexing (and upsetting) is that you know what you should do… but no matter how hard you try, you can’t get yourself to do it! It’s as if some unseen force is sabotaging you and controlling your behavior like you were a puppet on a string.

    Hmm…sound familiar?
     
    He goes on:

    You may not understand or appreciate this “self concept” and “self image” stuff yet. 

    However, if you choose to ignore this information, you would be making a grave error. 

    You can be on the most perfect nutrition program and the best training routine in the world, but you’ll always sabotage yourself in the long run if you don’t understand what your self image is, how it controls your behavior, and how to change it. 

    First, let’s talk about your SELF-CONCEPT: This is the total bundle of beliefs you have about yourself, including all the names and labels you put on yourself and the way you see yourself. If you really want to know what your true self-concept is, write down the words “I AM ______________” and fill in the blanks with everything you can think of. ” 

    What beliefs do YOU hold about yourself?   How do you label yourself? 

    Make a list.  Be honest – write down words and phrases you think describe yourself.
    Now, look over your list. 

    The words and phrases you wrote are good indicators of your self-concept. 

    Your self-concept started forming in early childhood.   Your parents, your peers, and authority figures largely influenced its development.   All of the information and suggestions you gathered from those sources was stored in your subconscious mind – and were accepted as true, even if they weren’t.

    Venuto continues:

    As an adult, your self-concept has solidified, but it slowly continues to be molded and reinforced by your successes, failures, triumphs, humiliations and everything you experience, see, hear, read and think. For example, if you go on a diet or exercise program and you fail, this goes into your subconscious memory bank and reinforces a negative self-concept: ‘See, I told you I’ll never be able to look like those people in the magazines.’

    Venuto uses this analogy to explain self-concept:

    Although your self-concept is deeply entrenched from years of conditioning, it CAN be changed. Before I explain the four steps to making the change, I want to explain self-concept using an analogy everyone can relate to – MONEY! 

    Money is seldom a subject that bores anyone and it’s a common denominator between all people, so let me explain the relationship between money and self-concept first. Once you see how self-concept affects how much money you earn, you’ll easily understand how it affects what kind of shape you’re in. You’ll then have enough awareness to begin changing your self-concept – and your body – for the better. 

    Question: If you won a large sum of money, or if your annual income suddenly became your monthly income, how would you feel about it? 

    ‘That would be AWESOME!’  is what most people blurt out initially. I have news for you: As bizarre as this may sound, I guarantee that if your old self-concept was still locked in place, you’d do everything possible to get rid of your new-found wealth. You’d make bad business decisions. You’d be unsuccessful in sales. You’d have an uncontrollable urge to go out and spend the money, splurge on things you didn’t need, invest in things you knew nothing about, lend to people who wouldn’t give it back or even flat out lose it! Just look at what happens to most lottery winners. 

    Most people stay inside a comfort zone that’s consistent with the concept and image they hold of themselves. They rarely rise above it or allow themselves to fall below it. Any time you try to make a change in your life, whether it’s losing fat or earning more money, it will stir up resistance inside you because you’re attempting to move beyond the safe, familiar and comfortable.

    To earn more money, you must see yourself as capable of earning more money and worthy of keeping it. If you see yourself as a $24,000 per YEAR person, you’ll NEVER earn and keep $24,000 per MONTH unless you see yourself as a $24,000 per month person.

    Your self-image must change.

    Venuto explains this concept:

    The part of the self-concept that affects your physical condition and ability to achieve your perfect weight is called the SELF-IMAGE. Maxwell Maltz, a plastic surgeon and author of the best seller, Psycho Cybernetics, stumbled onto the discovery of self-image with his patients. Even though he had corrected physical defects and deformities with surgery, his patients often retained their old self-image and continued to see themselves as “ugly,” “scarred,” or “deformed” even though they appeared quite beautiful by society’s standards. As a result, they continued to behave as they always had; shy, retiring, lacking in confidence. 

    This led Dr. Maltz to the conclusion that changing the physical image was not the real key to changes in personality and behavior. There was “something else.” That something else is the self-image. When the self-image is “reconstructed,” the person changes. If the self-image stays the same, the person’s behavior stays the same.

    Focusing solely on following a “diet” plan or workout program without having the right mindset is setting yourself up for failure because you are not addressing the SOURCE of the behavior.

    Venuto elaborates on how this works:

    If you see yourself as a fat person, you will behave like a fat person. If you see yourself as a lean, fit and healthy person, you will behave like a lean, fit and healthy person. A fat person would never work out faithfully every day of the week, so why is it any surprise that someone with a “fat person” self-image would skip workouts? Their brain is programmed to skip workouts. Someone with a “fat person” self-image would never eat healthy, low fat, low sugar, low calorie meals, so why would it be surprising that they cheat on their diet and binge on junk food? After all, their brain is programmed to eat junk. Is this starting to make sense? 

    To make a lasting change, you must work on the physical AND the mental planes. Of course you have to change your lifestyle, exercise and nutrition habits, but the real secret is not trying to force new behaviors, but changing the self-image which controls the behavior. Put your energy on a new mental picture, and the new picture will create new behaviors. Best of all, the new behaviors that spring from a positive new self-image will come without as much effort or willpower because they’re hard-wired into every cell of your body. The “unseen forces” are now working for you instead of against you.

    You create your desired self-image – picture it in your mind.  Make it vivid and detailed.  Dream, fantasize, imagine it – make it clear in your mind.  Don’t just think about what you believe you CAN get – think about what you WANT.

    Now, write that detailed description down on a card or paper you can carry with you in your purse, wallet, or pocket.  Venuto says,  “When you write your goal, use the three Ps: POSITIVE (what you want to achieve, not what you want to avoid or get rid of), PERSONAL (use the word I) and PRESENT tense (an already-having-received attitude). Don’t worry if it’s not perfect. Just sit down and write, write, write. You can always go back and edit, change or update it later. Just start.”

    Now you are ready to “fake it til you make it”. I’m not telling you to be phony or put on an act.  I’m telling you to BECOME the part you’ve written. Live it. Step into your new role.  Take actions that are consistent with your new self. Do something every day that gets you closer to your goal.

    Reinforce your new self-image daily – even hourly. Repetition will help you reprogram your mind by replacing the old image with the new one.  It took a long time for your original self-image to form, so don’t expect the new one to take hold immediately. It will take time, effort, and consistency.

    Your self image serves as the operating instructions of your mind and it controls everything you say, do, think and feel. In the absence of any deliberate change on your part, you will continue doing, thinking, saying and feeling very much the same things indefinitely.

    Take a minute right now to rethink your weight loss goals, and remember you are in this journey for the long haul. Accept that healthy weight loss is slow and steady. Your goal is to lose a pound or two a week. And even if you only lose half a pound, isn't that better than gaining?Make a list of all the ways your life has improved because of your weight loss so far. Celebrate these victories, write them down, and revisit them often. Realistic goals will improve your self-esteem and provide the reinforcement you need to help you continue the journey.

    Please Read this Article at NaturalBlaze.com

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